YOU’RE NOT CRAZY, YOU’RE NOT INSECURE

listen closely or read closely. pay attention to every word that is written here as i speak to those gut feelings you’ve been having lately. you’re not crazy, you’re not paranoid, you’re not insecure. it’s not you and i’m not just saying this to make you feel better. i’m not trying to be bias or mind your feelings so much that i would tell you a lie. i want to be honest with you, can i be completely honest with you. i mean full honesty without the filter. an ugly sort of honesty that’ll probably open your eyes to the truth that is happening within your relationship. a truth that often goes ignored as you continue to pay more attention to the lies that sound so fucking believable because they’re coming from the person who claims to care about you.

i swear to you that this is credible because i am the source. i may tell you things that you already know or maybe i may share something that shocks you or gives you that aha moment. maybe you’ll get some clarity or a bit of peace but either way, you may learn something and that’s the goal in terms of anything i share here via the Internet or medium.

trust your gut, trust your ability to see behind the curtain of anything sold to you as truth. trust your ability to see what others may choose to ignore. trust your ability to discern certain things about your mate and the true status of your relationship. understand that there is a reason as to why you may be feeling some of the things that you do. again, you’re not crazy but they’ll make you feel crazy. they’ll attempt to make you feel like a fool. they’ll use this opportunity to make you feel insecure because that’s they’re best line of defense and with that, you’ll probably feel so bad that you begin to stop asking questions. knowing damn well, you know that something just isn’t right. trust that pit in your stomach, the uneasiness you feel whenever they’re not around. trust the question that sits in your soul and consumes your mind. ask questions, don’t settle for half truths. see for yourself, stop closing your eyes to a truth that may possibly hurt you in the end. sometimes pain is the beginning of feeling something better with someone better but you’ll never know or understand until you go through it then get through it.

your mate should never get offended by your desire to know the truth or to feel secure. your mate becoming offended by your desire to know more in detail about certain things is a red flag. it’s always alarming to be in a relationship with someone who welcomes a question with instantly being defensive or becoming upset. if it’s nothing as they claim, then they wouldn’t react in that way. pay attention, open your eyes. there is truth in the actions of man.

the first thing a liar will do is find ways to turn the situation back on you. using your desire to feel secure as an a chance to force you to self reflect as if you are the initial problem when you aren’t and once that takes place. you begin to feel like you’ve done something wrong. you begin to feel guilty even when you’re innocent of wrong doing. pay attention. don’t let up, ask questions. be aware, fight for the security within your relationship but in all honesty, if you’re relationship is something that robs you of your peace of mind then it’s not even worth it…hear me, understand this, take it in.