Why He Hides You | part one

oh my generation, filled with so many lost souls. easy influenced by the songs they hear and the movies they watch. being taught about love from people who don't love them. entering relationships that are more like a personal hell, remaining in a relationship that causes their heart to go up into flames. i see so many women enter relationships with men who aren't men enough to celebrate them but instead, they simply hide them in plain sight. if for some reason you are the woman who is tired of being hidden or kept a secret, read on..

 

 

i won't waste your time, i won't dance around the obvious truth. i'll instead, simply spell it out for you with as much detail as i can. he hides you because he'd much rather appear available when in all honesty, he's technically taken by you. he's not fully invested and it becomes apparent by his refusal to showcase his appreciation for you.  it's the same old bull shit. they'll hit you with the being private conversation and how much they value their privacy as they continuously post some of the most private and sentimental moments in their lives via social media while conveniently leaving you out of the picture as if you don't even exist. now if you're the woman who tells people that it's just instagram or it's just social media and that you don't care that you're not important enough to be shared on his timeline, then this article or these words aren't for you. i'm only talking to the women who are tired of being treated as if they don't matter. i'm only speaking to the women who are tired of being left out of picture...literally. i honestly think it's sad that men have this ability to manipulate and change the narrative of what a woman wants by making her feel as if she's asking for too much. so, i know that there will be some women who read this, pretending that they don't care as if that makes them appear to be strong or secure but in all honesty, it doesn't. it's actually sad in most cases.

 

privacy has nothing to do with keeping someone hidden. sharing your love for someone whether in be in a caption or a photo doesn't disrupt privacy and in a world where people share the most important things in their lives with the whole world via social media, how is that you've accepted being left out or made to look like a ghost to their present lives. a man who hides you is hiding something that'll eventually break your heart. think about it...

 

Books That Every Woman Should read:

Whiskey Words and a Shovel Vol 1 | Vol 2

and

Born to love, Cursed to Feel by Samantha King